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Of women and their fellow women (men aside)

Whoever said women are their own worst enemies had made a very good observation. I am a woman, I should know but what they forgot to say is that Women are their own biggest source of strength too...and again, I am a woman I know these things. So it annoys me when women  critize, disrespect and discredit other women as their source of unhappiness when it comes to men and yet its the man who is more often the one who got this woman into the intricate  web in the first place.

I am not going to play the blame game here, because a breed of women is coming up that is the most mutated kind the human race has seen ever since. Long gone are the times when women waited to be courted, taken for dates, told sweet nothings and drew on the ground shyly. The bionic woman of today is taking the bull by the horn..they are going for what they want and sometimes it might come off as a little too tacky. So if your man falls victim of this woman, beware she will twist your brains and your man's until there is nothing left of your relationship then she will walk away (This was a very long side note huh?) but am glad we have settled this woman issue.

I know the clandestine arrangement has become something to be admired, even cheered upon hell I should know! I got a friend who was fooled into believing baba nani was Mr, Crisp and clean, a gentleman, a perfect walk in the park kinda guy until she got addicted to that thing being hit (euphemism has to be used in this juncture, if you get lost you are just too young to be reading this) and the wife appeared when she and Mr. Crisp and Clean were in the heat of the moment with my friend screaming "you Devil" with fires of passion emitting from here eyes...and the wife screamed right back but with anger and violence and attacked the poor soul to oblivion. To cut the story short, the hubby was back into the woman's hands and my friend was felt with a broken heart (just from finding out she was dishing from another woman's plate)

I am not judging, I don't have the right to. but society is making a mess where it does not need to. First there was polygamy, and life was good then there was monogamy and we still lived now this? hmm mm human beings are sure funny creatures :)

ION Been hit by the hardest writer's block this sides of the Sahara...I lost my mule and I need it back (maybe after today, just maybe.....) I got a list of some really stunning paintings by a Blind artist hope you will enjoy...



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