Random chic in a not so random town

I have been reading a blog by Jackson Biko these past few days and I think he is my mule. The guy has a beautiful command of language and his articles are flowy, they sound like beautiful music to the heart, a kind of sweetness that can't be tasted..but is so profound you can almost taste it..Now I live for that blog (he is not a demi God but he has a gift!) I can't say am a writer either, am just hungry  for word play and honestly enough for validation- which most people also look for but if they read this, would think am a being vain) It somehow comes with my age so forgive me :) I am inspired by an article he wrote about women and even though he is not a woman himself, he attempts to understand us in the way a man does. he gets in to our psyche and tries to redeem/condemn us from a chauvinistic/almost feminist kind of manner and I love it because it brings such a crisp picture of what we are without exploring too much. As a wom...

I know this is the month of cheer and I am feeling like a giver right now :) So I am going to post my bucket list hoping Santa had not forgotten what I had asked for (I will be waiting at the foot of the chimney) #22. A Jaguar A certain person promised a certain car and I will not let him rest until he provides. Judging from his financial situation I will have to know this person for the rest of my life...I don't have a problem with that considering he is my #project-runaway :) #21. An AG wedding with a divine after party I don't know about you all but I think the big white wedding is just too cliche. I don't want to break a bank to have a wedding, but I will not mind breaking a bank to be unique...hence the grand after party gerrit? And a honeymoon to die for haaaaa(dreamy!) #20.Just enough money to buy me everything I want Vain right? But who does not want money? In the weekend someone told me they just make money to spend money (rat race if...

Whoever said women are their own worst enemies had made a very good observation. I am a woman, I should know but what they forgot to say is that Women are their own biggest source of strength too...and again, I am a woman I know these things. So it annoys me when women  critize, disrespect and discredit other women as their source of unhappiness when it comes to men and yet its the man who is more often the one who got this woman into the intricate  web in the first place. I am not going to play the blame game here, because a breed of women is coming up that is the most mutated kind the human race has seen ever since. Long gone are the times when women waited to be courted, taken for dates, told sweet nothings and drew on the ground shyly. The bionic woman of today is taking the bull by the horn..they are going for what they want and sometimes it might come off as a little too tacky. So if your man falls victim of this woman, beware she will twist your brains and your man'...